There is a quote that I’ve heard – “An old friend will help you move. A true friend will help you move a dead body”, and as morbid and wrong as that is – these two are my dead body friends. They both celebrated birthdays this week and I thought I’d share some shots that I’ve taken of them and brag about them a little bit.
First Phebe (aka Beef, Beefy, Pheb, Phebelee, BbeforePhebeBPhebeBB, Fece and many more…)
This is who I ate tuna fish sandwiches with after Kindergarten under a pine tree up the street. This is who I kept a collection of toads with. This is who I shared my first kiss with in her basement with the same boy (he leaned over and kissed me, then leaned over and kissed her). This is who I cheated off of on every math paper in high school. This is who I ran from an angry hotel owner with in Europe because we felt we shouldn’t have to pay the bill for his crappy hotel with cold water (we got caught and paid). We have so many memories. Countless memories. Wonderful memories.
Here she is with her husband Brian who I totally dig. He is one of those quick guys that says super funny things that I don’t get for about 2 seconds, then I laugh, then I have to point out that I got it, then I have to point out that I’m a dumb blonde, then I laugh more about his joke. They do things like crosswords and play Scrabble together. Much more intelligent people than Brad and I.
She had 3 beautiful boys within 18 monthsish of each other. Something crazy that I always forget. Pierce and Gage (the twins) were born on the same day as my Brynn. If that isn’t weird I don’t know what is. She wasn’t brave enough to have four (just kidding).
This was a very impromptu shoot one day. I can’t wait to actually get them out and really get down and dirty with them.
Next Susan. My instant friend. Seriously. The day I met her I loved her. She is so alive and funny and interesting and interetsed in you. When I look back on it I can’t believe she didn’t try and wiggle away from me. I really have nothing to offer her, lol. I am THE MOST BORING PERSON on the face of the earth next to her.
This is who handed me my first beer and then wine cooler and then long island and then a shot – trying to help me figure out what I liked to drink. She is still working on this. This is who I was with when Brad came and met us out (enter fireworks shooting off in the sky). This is who I called and was at my house in an instant when I almost had my 3rd baby on the floor. This is who calls me to chitchat on the way to the gym. She provides me with the most valuable adult conversation every.single.day.
We had our boys two weeks apart and then our girls three weeks apart. She was also not brave enough to have four. Chicken. Her husband Phil is also hilarious. He is a movie line and song lyric encyclopedia. It’s crazy. And you should see him dance.
This family laughs hard, plays hard, works hard, fights hard and loves hard. There is no other way to say it. It is really exciting for Brad and I, lol.

So Happy Birthday to my fabulous, gorgeous and hilarious best friends. You are my yin and yang. You are both amazing warrior mothers. I can’t wait to spend quality time with you in about 5 years – it’s going to be great:)




Love this. Wish I had it of me and my boxer back in the day.





by Cathy
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